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Speech delay, nonverbal communication, and language play.

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Getting started with AAC — what parents need to know

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TED — Ajit Narayanan

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Nonverbal

Describes an autistic person who does not communicate primarily through spoken words. "Nonverbal" does not mean "without language" — many nonverbal autistic people communicate through gestures, writing, sign, picture systems, or AAC devices.

AAC (augmentative and alternative communication)

Any communication method other than speech. AAC ranges from low-tech (picture cards, sign) to high-tech (speech-generating apps and devices). For nonverbal or minimally-speaking autistic people, AAC is a primary way to express needs and ideas — not a replacement that delays speech.

Echolalia

Repeating words or phrases heard from others, immediately or later. Echolalia is often a step in language learning, not a problem to fix. Many autistic people use echoed phrases meaningfully — quoting a line from a show, for example, to communicate a feeling.

Scripting

Repeating familiar phrases — from books, movies, conversations — to communicate, self-regulate, or rehearse. Scripting can be soothing and is often a route into spontaneous speech for autistic children.

Pragmatic language

The social side of language — taking turns in conversation, reading body language, knowing when to start and stop speaking. Many autistic people find pragmatic language harder than vocabulary or grammar, and it is often a focus in speech-language therapy.

Gestalt language processing

A style of language acquisition where the child first learns whole phrases (often from media, songs, or repeated adult speech) and only later breaks them down into individual words. Many autistic children are gestalt language processors. Recognising this style can change how speech-language therapy is structured.

Expressive language

The language a child produces — words, signs, AAC selections, gestures. Expressive language is what most people notice first ("she doesn't talk yet"). It is one half of communication; receptive language is the other.

Receptive language

The language a child understands — words and phrases they can take in, even if they do not say them. Many children, including many autistic children, understand more than they say. Assuming receptive language is strong is part of presuming competence.

Social stories

Short, simple, illustrated stories that walk a child through what to expect in a particular situation — a haircut, the first day of school, a flight. Developed by Carol Gray, social stories often help autistic children prepare for new or stressful events.

PECS (Picture Exchange Communication System)

A low-tech AAC system in which the child hands a picture card to someone to communicate what they want. PECS is one of several AAC approaches; it works for some children and not others. Speech-language pathologists help families pick what fits.

Common questions

Should I worry if my child isn't talking yet?
Talking ages vary, and a late-talking toddler is not automatically autistic. That said, if your child has not started using single words by around 16 months, or two-word combinations by around two years — or if they previously had words and lost them — it is worth raising with your paediatrician. Early support helps, and a check-in costs nothing.
My child does not speak. Should we try AAC?
Yes — and trying AAC does not slow down spoken speech. The research is fairly clear on that. AAC gives a child a way to express needs and ideas now, which often takes pressure off and supports overall language. Start with a speech-language pathologist who has AAC experience; they will help you choose between low-tech (cards, books) and high-tech (apps, dedicated devices).
Our doctor said to wait and see about speech delay. Should we?
Sometimes "wait and see" is fine — every child develops on their own timeline. But for some children, the time between concern and support is too long for "wait and see" to be a safe answer. A useful middle path: ask for a speech-language assessment now (it does not commit you to therapy) and use the wait time to build language-rich routines at home. If you stay worried, ask again or get a second opinion.
My child repeats lines from cartoons. Is that a problem?
Not a problem — often the opposite. Echolalia (repeating phrases) is a common step in autistic language development. The child is practising language, often using it meaningfully (a happy line when they are happy, a worried line when they are worried), and many gestalt language processors go from echolalia into more flexible spoken language over time. A speech-language pathologist familiar with gestalt processing can help.
How can I help my child learn to point?
Pointing usually emerges when a child wants to share something with you, not just get something. Try to make sharing rewarding: when they show you anything (a leaf, a toy), match their interest with delight. Place desired things out of reach so they have to communicate. And do not force their hand into a point — model pointing yourself and wait. If by around 18 months they are not pointing at all, mention it to your paediatrician.